Do I need to write about it? I'm not sure, I'm not sure whether I have the authority to actually judge someone. But obviously I'm still a normal human being strapped in the world full of jealousy and arrogance. And I must admit that I am just a freaking mediocre person.
OMG I should have just shut my mouth up and let them experience themselves instead of throwing up everything I know in the hope of them to understand my shit. WELL CALM DOWN!
Urgh I will take a deep breath and think about how I behaved many years ago. Yeah I was a wild horse, I used to think I was the center of the world and for God's sake I have repeated that phrase many times in my old posts. But the matter of fact is that everybody who has come to my life at this phase all behaves the same as I was right before my awakening.
I get mad. I'm mad because they don't understand, they don't understand anything, they think they know everything, they think they're an expert in their field and they have the right to judge other people. Okay so I'm sorry, because I'm judging them right now, but not because I hate them or I don't appreciate their hard works or talents, or I want to degrade them or anything, just I can't stand seeing them walking on the same path as I was in my messy days.
I have climbed out of the hole of blue and dark sticky mud, gluey enough to hold my legs and refrain me from exposing to the light of enlightenment. But there is only one thing that I couldn't refrain myself, that is my anger. I'm afraid that someday I will get mad at my employees or it's gonna be a big explosion, I'm not sure, and I have to take control of it as soon as possible.
You know what, young people. they're inexperienced, the way they see the world is completely distorted in the projection of themselves as the main character of their own movie. They think they're special while they're not. And I'm hopeless, I don't know how to flatten out the pane to rearrange everything to its own pinned position. To response to that attitude, I get mad. You know, I'm trying to find a solution too, I need to settle myself down and stay calm, I shouldn't share so much because sharing right now is meaningless, at least to them, those young chrysalises squirming around in their safe mines.
I should shut my mouth up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Okay, so let's think, do I need to include this part in one of my upcoming videos? I guess yeah, one day when I know how to maintain my composure perfectly, then I will make a video about it. But not now, of course, since I'm still struggling with how to deal with it.
They don't listen, :))))) okay, so, the definition of the Dunning - Kruger effect, I will quote it here for anyone who hasn't had any idea about it yet:
The Dunning–Kruger effect is the cognitive bias whereby people with low ability at a task overestimate their ability. Some researchers also include in their definition the opposite effect for high performers: their tendency to underestimate their skills.
- Wikipedia -
See? They think they are Mr/Mrs. Know it All.
Done!
I should just shut up! And write! That's all.
Brief:
How to be a good boss?
How to hold your anger?
Okay, so I'm good now, after taking a shower and having dinner, I think I chill out a lil bit. Let's make it clear.
To the only one point which reminds me of my existence, I'm nobody and neither does he, we're nobody, we are the same at some points and he has his own reasons to react that way. He is an inexperienced young person, he needs to be guided, and you can't impose him in doing what he is not ready for.
What you need to do is keeping quiet and letting him get things himself. Say valuable words and say once, don't repeat twice if it's not the main point. Stay cool with everything he says, be patient and listen to him. Don't get mad. Thrive him up. Stop sharing so much excessive information.
Updating...
Comments
Post a Comment